Honest friend

If you want an honest friend pick a child, however remember they see things in simple ways, but despite this sometimes the best way to see things is in a simple way.

In their simple way they can be quite upsetting but they tell it as it is.

Unspoken promise

The unspoken promise of a kiss or smile it seems to say so much yet is say nothing at all.

A smile can tell you someone is happy or that someone loves you how this simple action can be so many things and have so many meanings I can not tell you but I know how people look at one another and it’s an amazing thing sometimes.

See what others do

When looking at the person you love it often possible to say I love them because…. But equally you find it hard to see how that wonderful person you love so much how they love you… this is because you see your faults and failings but sometimes you have to agree its not because they don’t see them its because they also see the better side of you that is within you to be.

Prove them right be that better person, and don’t stress yourself out being a better person is just little things everyday.

Change

When we stand on the edge of a change we often don’t know what is before us and worry about the change and what it will mean to us… sometimes this change is something like changing job, sometimes its like buying a house and other times is something you just don’t understand because its not something you need but its something you want.

The question that we are trying to answer without success is how will this change my life and if I should do it, well I offer you this advice… unless the thing you are thinking about is killing yourself don’t worry so much because life can be changed and can put right even some of the biggest mistakes so just take you future by the hand and make that change and if it all ends up so bad then make another change.

Moving past yourself and have an open mind

What is wrong? What is right? These are questions that have no place because they are context related. What is right in your mind is not always right in others, and how do you express your point of view? Do you tell them it or do you point a gun in their face and tell them your right!!

Every one is entitled to have a belief and every one is entitled to follow that believe as long as it does not go against the laws of the land you are in.

So as long as you are not killing or robbing someone you can believe you are whoever you want to be, so I think I’ll call myself Jack Daniels, I maybe fated to die after kicking my safe but that’s my choice.

Now lets look at a better point of view, what we think of far way lands, are they full of strange people we weird ways or are they full of interesting people with new things to learn.

One of the best expressions is “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink” the same can be said for people, you can lead them to somewhere but you can’t make them have an open mind. You can see this in tourists around the world the travel 1000 or more miles and order a pizza? They could have had that at home why travel a 1000 miles… these people are every where and yet these are the ones that you will take your holiday advice from because they where there, that’s like saying I was in the room when the doctor did the operation so I think I can do triple heart by past surgery too now.

Here is the deal people if you want to understand what a place is like, walk down the dark streets, talk to the guy sweeping the street, take a bus not a taxi travel to your holiday by train not airplane… travel in no more than two people and talk to every one even if they are old and dirty, a place is its people not the tourists resort.

But this is only one kind of open mind….
I will make this last bit short because if you’ve taken the time to read this far you will ether contact me or want the end soon, so to cover the last point, do not be to quick to tell people they are wrong but do not give up your beliefs ether, talk about them openly and what the impact of yours and their beliefs mean for you and others and maybe just maybe we can work out some peaceful answers.