See what others do

When looking at the person you love it often possible to say I love them because…. But equally you find it hard to see how that wonderful person you love so much how they love you… this is because you see your faults and failings but sometimes you have to agree its not because they don’t see them its because they also see the better side of you that is within you to be.

Prove them right be that better person, and don’t stress yourself out being a better person is just little things everyday.

Change

When we stand on the edge of a change we often don’t know what is before us and worry about the change and what it will mean to us… sometimes this change is something like changing job, sometimes its like buying a house and other times is something you just don’t understand because its not something you need but its something you want.

The question that we are trying to answer without success is how will this change my life and if I should do it, well I offer you this advice… unless the thing you are thinking about is killing yourself don’t worry so much because life can be changed and can put right even some of the biggest mistakes so just take you future by the hand and make that change and if it all ends up so bad then make another change.

Moving past yourself and have an open mind

What is wrong? What is right? These are questions that have no place because they are context related. What is right in your mind is not always right in others, and how do you express your point of view? Do you tell them it or do you point a gun in their face and tell them your right!!

Every one is entitled to have a belief and every one is entitled to follow that believe as long as it does not go against the laws of the land you are in.

So as long as you are not killing or robbing someone you can believe you are whoever you want to be, so I think I’ll call myself Jack Daniels, I maybe fated to die after kicking my safe but that’s my choice.

Now lets look at a better point of view, what we think of far way lands, are they full of strange people we weird ways or are they full of interesting people with new things to learn.

One of the best expressions is “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink” the same can be said for people, you can lead them to somewhere but you can’t make them have an open mind. You can see this in tourists around the world the travel 1000 or more miles and order a pizza? They could have had that at home why travel a 1000 miles… these people are every where and yet these are the ones that you will take your holiday advice from because they where there, that’s like saying I was in the room when the doctor did the operation so I think I can do triple heart by past surgery too now.

Here is the deal people if you want to understand what a place is like, walk down the dark streets, talk to the guy sweeping the street, take a bus not a taxi travel to your holiday by train not airplane… travel in no more than two people and talk to every one even if they are old and dirty, a place is its people not the tourists resort.

But this is only one kind of open mind….
I will make this last bit short because if you’ve taken the time to read this far you will ether contact me or want the end soon, so to cover the last point, do not be to quick to tell people they are wrong but do not give up your beliefs ether, talk about them openly and what the impact of yours and their beliefs mean for you and others and maybe just maybe we can work out some peaceful answers.

I’m not what I once was and not yet what I will be

We all struggle to understand ourselves, it is much easier to look outward and understanding others sometimes than it is to look inward and understanding yourself.


Still water runs deep was how I was once described.
In me runs great emotion even when I’m not showing it that is what it means.


I have not lived my life as a poor man but I have lived a day as one, from this you learn that to be poor is to have understanding of what you need, and what you desire.


Understanding comes from seeing things from more than one point of view you must look down and up at the same time to understand what you are truly doing.


The power to lose time and make yourself and other move to another point in time is the power to put others at rest or at peace so that time may travel without being noticed.

There was mean to be someone

Wasn't there meant to be someone for us?
Someone to love and hold us?

These are common questions and the short answer is yes... the hard answer is there is such a person but the really hard problem is they might not be anywhere near you...

you see the world is a big place and finding that perfect person for you is just not easy, when it was just Adam and Eve, lets face it that was easy how many other people could you pick from? but now there are many and we often think we are in love or are in love with the wrong person...

but when you find that person that right for you... you know it because when you look back you think how bad the others where for you, how it just didn't fit like it does now... and how you just stopped thinking of anyone else

I can't tell you what love is... no one can but when you feel it you'll know it.